Tuesday, January 26, 2010

ugly inside out.

is it bad to say, ugly people are just ugly inside out.

boleh ke cakap ayat ni? 'dah la muka buruk, prangai pun buruk.'

atau cuma boleh kutuk pasal prangai dia buruk je?

tapi kalau prangai dia buruk sebab muka dia buruk macamana?

disebabkan keburukan muka dia yang terlampau hodoh, psychological impact orang lain terhadap dia dan keadaan sekeliling telah buat die jadi orang yang berperangai buruk

Pastu cuba kalau tambah dia tu miskin pulak.

Pastu tengah2 bengang nih. rasa nak mencarut. kita cakap

ko dah la buruk, miskin pastu prangai pun buruk. macam jahat kan.

tambah lagi satu kompleksiti. prangai dia buruk, sebab dia miskin.

sebab dia miskin, childhoodnya tak terjaga. Sebab dia hodoh, prangai dia hodoh.

Sebab dia miskin, dia tak pegi skolah. Jadi dia bodoh.

Sebab dia bodoh dan miskin prangai dia pun hodoh.

Macamana nak kesian kan kebodohan dan kemiskinan dia, kalau ada kehododohan perangai yang dibentuk oleh kemiskinan dan kehodohan dia terlalu teruk dan buruk.


Jahatkan generalization tu.

Tapi salah ke.

Tengok je American Idol ke. Yang hodoh tu prangai buruk, bodoh n suara tak sedap.

skang ni hawa ngah sakit hati, dengan sekelompok masyarakat.
sedikit generalisasi yang tidak adil, tapi contoh2 individu yg exact yg specific dlm otak hawe. rasa macam nk ketuk je.

'dah la buruk, miskin, bodoh, pastu prangai mcam setan'

fuh..

Ok. ada mana2 part hawa salah tak.
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11 comments:

  1. bakhtiarJanuary 26, 2010 at 4:42 AM

    1st conclusion. perangai baik tak datang naturally.

    - while we're there, empathy tak datang naturally. it is learned

    2nd- nak jadi baik ni senang tak payah nak kene ade moral high ground i.e. tak payah belajar tinggi e.g. tak payah nak subscribe to feminism to know pukul wife sesuka hati tak elok.

    3rd- ok skrg akan controversial and make me look bad. good looking people lagi senang untuk (readily) mix and prefer to be seen with other good looking people. stop. digest. continue.

    4- same macam how we associate skimpy clothing with skanks, certain clothes gives you idea on how to act and react to someone. in this case the clothes do make the man.

    learning about decency/morality is a privilege yang tak semua orang dapat? i dont think so, tapi generally semua orang lepas reach certain age yang dia kena jadi part of the larger community akan at least tau what is acceptable and what's not.

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  2. hawayouJanuary 26, 2010 at 6:24 AM

    ugly and beautiful subjective kan.

    Prangai buruk that i meant was merompak, mencuri, merogol, memolest....
    bukan yg mild2 seperti annoying ke gdik tu cam
    biasa.

    Kita penat kesian kat orang miskin ni, pastu dia rompak kita. camtu lah analogy nye.

    I wonder why takde perogol or perompak yang hensem.

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  3. AnonymousJanuary 26, 2010 at 7:12 AM

    Ok this is a bit evil but:

    Kalau ada perogol hensem, mungkin dia tak yah merogol.

    Ok, reply intelek coming soon.

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  4. ikan kekekJanuary 26, 2010 at 9:11 AM

    to huraikan lebih lanjut the prev comment... prolly if perogol hensem, he cd reach a consensus with the victim..."xyah merogol, ko relakan je...aku kn hensem, bkn slalu ko dpt peluang mcm ni".

    So victim pon rela sbb perogol hensem. xjadi kes rogol.

    ini bukan pemikiran kritis tp otakku beri tindakan refleks.

    life is kinda unfair bcoz ppl r like tht:)

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  5. hawayouJanuary 26, 2010 at 9:54 AM

    ikan kekek. tu literal sangat.

    mesti macam if dia better looking, he wouldnt even choose that option.
    Rape bukan dlm option kecuali dia some psycopath.

    Its a mean generalization; id rather call it :pinpointing the similarities of the group.

    Semua perompak hodoh.
    Tapi bukan semua org2 hodoh perompak.

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  6. Duchess DoroJanuary 27, 2010 at 2:29 AM

    I agree wit zek n hawa. mayb im biased tp i rs btul. hahaha.

    mayb if dia bttr lookin, ppl wld treat him bttr, he'd get better jobs n he'd get a gf..he wldnt hf to result in stealing n molesting...

    tho of coz ada je perogol n pembunuh n pencuri hnsem...mesti ada...

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  7. bakhtiarJanuary 27, 2010 at 4:21 AM

    conmen macam ocean's eleven tu kira perompak ke tak? how about orang kerja bank yang ambik satu sen dari sejuta orang and masukkan dalam akaun dia?

    i bet we all ada idea how a perogol or perompak looks like dalam kepala and i bet lagi mesti muka diorang tak cantik/hensem, rumah buruk etc. so kita link kehodohan dengan benda2 jahat sebab kita tak prefer dua2 aspect. shallow ke someone kalau dia buat association ni? <-- bukan rhetorical question

    i dont think one of the top motivations untuk rape ialah muka perogol tu buruk and takleh dapat gf.

    lagi satu i think banyak ayat on this page yang dah ter oversimplified. tapi actually boleh paham yang analogy hawa tu.

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  8. tiaJanuary 27, 2010 at 7:36 AM

    kalau tengah marah semua boleh keluar.

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  9. bakhtiarJanuary 27, 2010 at 8:18 AM

    eh tapi orang yang guna date rape drugs at least good looking enough to attract potential victim kan?

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  10. hawayouJanuary 28, 2010 at 11:05 PM

    haha. oklah dah puas dah marah.
    bukan generalization pun.

    salah haribulan nnti terlalu out of context

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  11. shamsulFebruary 1, 2010 at 4:52 AM

    observation terbaik

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